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عنوان الموضوع : I am what Iam من المجتمع
مقدم من طرف منتديات أميرات
Have you recently received some bad news like; your partner has decided to leave you for good, or you’re losing a well paying job, or perhaps your doctor has announced to you that(god forbid) you are suffering from a depilating disease? And then you decided to cry your eyes out all night long? And then you on the next night…… and the next??
Thought our lives we face a lot of devastating events like divorce, death, sickness, failure at school or business or even losing a close friend over some quarrel! And our first response when we first receive the news is usually the worst. We either break down into tears that will usually last for days or we start denying the whole scenario and start living in solitude to avoid the bitterness of the truth! And in both cases we end up hurt! We end up torn, crushed or stabbed. But let me correct this, we chose to be crushed, to be torn or to be stabbed! We chose to give up and surrender to despair.
We chose to be taken over y the crushing feeling of grief! We chose to pity ourselves. It’s undeniable that it can sometimes be overwhelming, but let it be for a while and then move on! Go from overwhelming to problem solving! Decide that you don’t needs to stay in that dark place of yours for long. Choose not to pity yourself.
Sometimes we choose to be crushed by cruel lovers in a degrading relationship than having to break it off. We don’t usually weigh our chances well. We’re too scared of the pain of leaving, that we choose to stay. But the truth is, it will hurt even more to stay. But the truth is, it will hurt even more to stay in such a draining relationship that will deprive you from dignity and will, than to be alone by yourself as a single! At other times, we build total dependence on our partner as regards our happiness and securities. If my partner is giving m enough love and attention I am happy, if not I die! NO! Any relationship should not be complementary issue, it should be supplementary! You will continue to exist with or without the relation! So if you choose to be in one, it should be a reciprocation of love, respect and giving from both parties1 Otherwise, don’t bother wasting your time with some one that doesn’t care about spending his time with you! Choose out!
After you wake up from the knock out, you start the why mw why me thing right? Then what?? What is it that you exactly lack? Where do you want to reach? Decide what you want to start acting on it. Decide how you want to feel in the next few years but start today! What you choose to do now will change how you could feel later. People who have reached somewhere in life are no heroes. They are people who did what had to be done! So perhaps you need a better job that requires from you to upgrade your skills? Check. Or you want to lower that cholesterol level of yours and maintain better health? Check. Or maybe you wanna lose that jelly belly before summer? Check Check Check! Here is an amazing goal achievement plan; it tells you exactly that you should do to pursuit your dream!
1- Express your goal in terms of specific events or behaviors! When goal is broken down in to smaller specific goals it can be managed and pursued much more directly!
2- Express your goal in terms that can be measured. That way can easily assess your achievements.
3- Assign a time line. A deadline will ensure a sense of urgency and will serve as a motivator against slackness.
4- Choose a realistic goal. You should be able to easily manipulate and control your goal.
5- Plan a program or strategy that will get you to your goal. Realistically assess your obstacles and recourses to create a strategy of reaching it. This program is to be followed and relied on in case of will power diminishing!
6- Define your goal in terms of steps. Use realistic intervals of your life to recognize your goal. Major life changes .Don’t just happen they happen one step at a time!
7- Create accountability for your progress towards your goal. Make periodical reports of your progress. If you know what you want it and the real consequences of not doing the work, you are much more likely to reach your goal!
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مقدم من طرف منتديات أميرات
اقرءو الموضوع وقولو لي رايكم اذا ترغبون ان ابعث لك المزيد في مثيل هذه الموضوعات ولا تنسونا الدعاء
I am what I am today
Because of choices
I made yesterday!!
Have you recently received some bad news like; your partner has decided to leave you for good, or you’re losing a well paying job, or perhaps your doctor has announced to you that(god forbid) you are suffering from a depilating disease? And then you decided to cry your eyes out all night long? And then you on the next night…… and the next??
It’s not what happens to us, it’s our response that hurts us!!
We chose to be taken over y the crushing feeling of grief! We chose to pity ourselves. It’s undeniable that it can sometimes be overwhelming, but let it be for a while and then move on! Go from overwhelming to problem solving! Decide that you don’t needs to stay in that dark place of yours for long. Choose not to pity yourself.
No one can hurt you without your consent!
Stop complaining about what you’re not getting & start working on what you want!
1- Express your goal in terms of specific events or behaviors! When goal is broken down in to smaller specific goals it can be managed and pursued much more directly!
2- Express your goal in terms that can be measured. That way can easily assess your achievements.
3- Assign a time line. A deadline will ensure a sense of urgency and will serve as a motivator against slackness.
4- Choose a realistic goal. You should be able to easily manipulate and control your goal.
5- Plan a program or strategy that will get you to your goal. Realistically assess your obstacles and recourses to create a strategy of reaching it. This program is to be followed and relied on in case of will power diminishing!
6- Define your goal in terms of steps. Use realistic intervals of your life to recognize your goal. Major life changes .Don’t just happen they happen one step at a time!
7- Create accountability for your progress towards your goal. Make periodical reports of your progress. If you know what you want it and the real consequences of not doing the work, you are much more likely to reach your goal!
Finally life is all about choices, so make sure to make a choice that makes a happier, healthier and more successful you!
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السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
أختي العزيزة ..بيسان
مشكورة على الاجتهاد في النقل و المشاركة
و لكن ليتك غاليتي تترجمي للأخوات الموضوع للغة العربية ... ان امكن
حتى تعم الفائدة
و حيث ان القوانين تفرض علينا المشاركة باللغة العربية
مغلـــــــق
أختي العزيزة ..بيسان
مشكورة على الاجتهاد في النقل و المشاركة
و لكن ليتك غاليتي تترجمي للأخوات الموضوع للغة العربية ... ان امكن
حتى تعم الفائدة
و حيث ان القوانين تفرض علينا المشاركة باللغة العربية
مغلـــــــق
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